In life there are things that we CANT control. We cant control other people, the weather or the way the world turns. However, there are a few things that we DO have control over. Lets take the ERL Method.
You can control how or what you learn from you experiences.
Having the ability to reflect on what happened and what you can do to make something better is the ultimate goal. Learning and growing from your experiences makes your a better person.
Next, you can control your reaction to mistakes. Mistakes are a natural part of life, stuff happens. But you can control your response. Either you learn from your mistakes and respond in a way that is benefical or you continue to do the same thing over and over again.
People who do the same thing over and over again and expect the same results will get what they asked for. It doesn’t matter what happens or how is happens, but your reaction or response makes all the difference. You can control your response or reaction to any situation, its a learning process but choose the method that works best.
The final thing that you can control is your level of effort. No one is going to baby you and put you on a pedestal. You only get one shot do not miss your chance to grow! You have the ability to make a difference, to make a change and to do anything that you believe is possible. The level of effort that you put in determines how much you actually want or desire to have something. There should be no days off and a continuos high level or determination and confidence. Don’t be afraid to try something new.
-Be Blessed, Be Inspired, Be Powerful